That first stage of a relationship is very stressful, especially if you really like someone and not sure your feelings are being returned. Is he dating other people? Should I be dating others? It can be so filled with anxiety that you can't enjoy the moment. You can't check your feelings exactly but you can balance your life. If you find yourself obsessing over this guy, force yourself to steer your thoughts in another direction, go do something fun with friends, fill your social calendar and don't be waiting on "him". If he becomes your boyfriend, super! If not, you will not have spent too much time on him. You are more attractive when you come across as socially fulfilled.