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Originally Posted by monalisasmile
I don't know, I think I have kept it hidden well. I don't want to tell her because last her terminated me because of it.
T knows I like her but I don't know if she realises how much.
She has never brought up transference but she has brought up everything else to do with therapy.
She is rather curious about two women and what we do. She asks lots of questions about that and always says afterwards it's not my orientation so I wouldn't know.
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I think there are things that are very difficult to hide in terms of attraction, however much we may wish to... like a blush, involuntary mirroring of a smile, leaning or gesturing.
Its difficult not to unconsciously flirt at least a little with those who we covet, no? And you shouldn't worry if you do. Anyone should be flattered with it, as long as you're not invasive or breaking boundaries.
As for what she asks you... if I had to guess based on what you were saying, then I'd say she doesn't have a lot of experience with lesbian clients and she's at least intellectually curious about that sexual orientation. We're rarely exactly het, or gay, as Kinsey points out.