No, you are not a wallet. And yes, your needs have to valued, too.

There are non-broken homes out there, that can be just as damaging as a 'broken home'. Visitation schedules can be flexible and include a father around more often than not. ((this I know from my own schedule..5 days a week, with flexibility for extra time, just because, I personally value the father /child relationship, just cannot live with the man))

Hang in there!!