I once saw a therapist who in the first session, after my talking, turned around everything by asking how I felt about her and how much what I was saying was related to seeing her. She was trying to push transference at the first meeting!

Needless to say, I didn't go back.

If you feel your therapist might just be inept, go see someone else. It's not worth the investment of time, money, and emotional output to waste it on someone who you wonder about.