Reading your post the most overwhelming part is that you are thoroughly fed up and depressed. Fair enough too, with all that is going on.

I think that while your husband is in jail, if he goes, is to really work on you. If you are distancing yourself, then perhaps accept it for now. Your relationship will be different for a while, and there's little you can do about it. If you work on you, and perhaps get to a better place then perhaps you will reconnect and end up in a better place together? I just think with so much going on that it's better to try and work on one thing at a time, rather than feel overwhelmed with all that is going on.

If you have sexual relationships towards your male therapists, please switch to a woman and (I presume) take that out of the way. If you're feeling no connection and your therapy isn't working for you (despite what they may think) then you should switch anyhow. Its your money and your life so don't feel bad for it.

And fair enough for missing adult conversation with someone close. OK, you're in for a tough few months without him, but try and keep remembering that the time will go, and it will probably go fast. How many times do we find ourselves saying 'where did the year go' when it comes to Xmas again? Try and think more positively if you can. Sure, you'll miss sex, but nobody ever died for not having sex for 3 months! If you have parents and siblings around, would they perhaps be able to babysit occasionally so you can get out and see some friends? At least there will be some more adults to talk to and may help to lift your spirits.

Please take one problem at a time, and focus on that. As they say, Rome wasn't built in a day, and you'll not be able to solve everything at once.

Be kind to yourself.
Hugs