Being able to reach that point of satisfaction can be just as emotionally based as physically. If it becomes debilitating and you continue to have troubles over time, of course speak with a doctor about it.

As far as being told you are expected to be in the mood, the moment he arrives, when you are having trust issues, surrounding your relationship.

Can't force trust to be there, when this sounds like something to be resolved. And then for him to tell people you are on drugs, what a horrible thing to tell about someone!!!!

*hug*