Tips for coping with holiday stress and depression:

Make realistic expectations for the holiday season.

Set realistic goals for yourself.

Pace yourself. Do not take on more responsibilities than you can handle.

Make a list and prioritize the important activities. This can help make holiday tasks more manageable.

Be realistic about what you can and cannot do.

Do not put all your energy into just one day (i.e., Thanksgiving Day, New Year's Eve). The holiday cheer can be spread from one holiday event to the next.

Live and enjoy the present.

Look to the future with optimism.

Don't set yourself up for disappointment and sadness by comparing today with the good old days of the past.

If you are lonely, try volunteering some time to help others.

Find holiday activities that are free, such as looking at holiday decorations; going window shopping without buying and watching the winter weather whether it's a snowflake, or a raindrop.

Limit your drinking, since excessive drinking will only increase your feelings of depression.

Try something new. Celebrate the holidays in a new way.

Spend time with supportive and caring people.

Reach out and make new friends.

Make time to contact a long lost friend or relative and spread some holiday cheer.

Make time for yourself!

Let others share the responsibilities of holiday tasks.

Keep track of your holiday spending. Over-spending can lead to depression when the bills arrive after the holidays are over. Extra bills with little budget to pay them can lead to further stress and depression.

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If you are experiencing holiday blues:

Establish realistic goals and expectations for the holiday season, and do not label the holiday season as a time to cure all past problems. The holidays do not prevent sadness or loneliness.

Do not feel obliged to feel festive. Accept your inner experience and do not force yourself to express specific feelings.

If you have recently experienced a tragedy, death, or romantic break-up, tell people about your needs.

Enjoy holiday activities that are free, such as driving around to look at holiday decorations. Go window shopping without buying anything.

Express your feelings to those around you in a constructive, honest, and open way.

If you need to confront someone with a problem, begin your sentences with "I feel."