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Originally Posted by CantExplain
Difficulty in Working on Abandonment
Maybe it’s not all Madame T’s fault. We did talk about this. The problem is, that most of the time I’m with her I don’t feel abandoned, so we can’t work on abandonment then. And when I do feel abandoned, it’s so painful it leads to a rupture and I leave. We can’t work on it then, either.
Still, I feel Madame T should know about this difficulty and have a plan to deal with it. Clearly she doesn’t.
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I think that not every T is as capable, perhaps, as they should be. Getting attached to someone doesn't guarantee their competence in all areas.