I have an attorney but it's an out of state divorce. Divorce isn't the problem....that's easy....it's the being stuck on the loan that's the problem.....I basically walked away from everything even though I still want to bring some of my things if I can....but he's basically getting everything......I got away from him, but am still trapped on the loan & if he pulls his financial irresponsibility, then I could loose everything if the mortgage company comes after my farm that I got with my inheritance because I'm still on the loan....only way to get off a loan from my understanding is with a refi & that's impossible at this point in time.