This situation will not improve. You don't like your room mate and never will. Even if she started cleaning, her personality is always going to irritate you. Accept that and begin your hunt for another living arrangement. While you search, accept that you and her are incompatible. No, she will not be successful in life. Truly manipulative people are rarely happy inside. The men want to have sex with her, it empowers her. She still lives in an apartment with a stranger who hates her. Make your life better than hers by getting out of there. You can find a better room mate. One who you will enjoy.