I have wondered also if some of my relationship problems may stem from an undiagnosed PD in my SO. Putting together two people, one of which is depressed (me) and one of which seems to have some sort of personality DO, though I haven't been able to pinpoint what it might be, is a lose-lose situation. I spend alot of time crying and he spends alot of time telling me how nobody else will ever want me or put up with me, why I have no right to feel the way I do, and that I am crazy and everything is all in my head. I broke up once and he said he would go to couples counseling, only to come back and tell me that he wasn't going because I was the one who needed to get help, and that if anyone tried to tell him otherwise he would just get up and leave (and tell them to go f*** themselves, in his words). I would also like to know how you can make people realize that they are contributing to the problems in a relationship when they have no insight. This is all so confusing for me
I feel like I have tried everything. Please keep up to date on your progress and I will as well...there has to be something that works.