Why do you stay with him? I just don't get it... He didn't just cheat or betray you, he went as far as leading 2 seperate lives, that is dishonesty on an entirely different level.

And to spread lies about you? Humilliate you, in order to keep his 2 lives from colliding??? Thats cruel, brutal and utterly disrespectful.

He is obviously an imbecile if he thinks demanding sex is they way to go. Again, why stay? I could never date an imbecile, but that's just me, I don't date "down" anymore.

You deserve better, much better. I'm sorry if I was unhelpful, I just cannot wrap my head around the fact that you actually agreed to continue a relationship with this sorry excuse of a man.

My unsolicited advice is to leave him of course. He's an emotionally abusive, philandering, self-centred douchebag who doesn't deserve to lick the dirt off your boots let alone have sex with you.

Has he been tested for STD's and AIDS? ugh please if you are staying with him, have him tested for everything before letting his filthy paws near you, the last thing you want is for him to give you a disease. The fact that the other woman has a child by him or even talks of a child means they definitly did not practice safe sex.