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Old Jun 17, 2013, 12:24 AM
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Originally Posted by RoseBee View Post
He wants to marry me, get a house, and have kids. He tells me that it's not that big of a deal, he doesn't want the kid really, but he likes him and that's why he doesn't sign away his rights. He tells me he wants me, he wants to have a kid with me and a kid that he actually wants. He's reassured me, and I feel reassured. I just need tips on how to get over this all consuming anger and jealousy that some other woman has what should be mine, his kid. I am sure it stems from him not telling me for five months. I would have broken up with him had he told me before I fell in love. I feel betrayed about that.
[quote=RoseBee;3120368]He wants to marry me, get a house, and have kids. He tells me that it's not that big of a deal, he doesn't want the kid really, but he likes him and that's why he doesn't sign away his rights.

????? You want to have a child with a man that doesn't really want his child????

Why would you want to be with a man that would say such a thing, let alone have children with..

This whole situation seems very odd .
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