I think that you will do something differently, because you will not let him or anyone after him to hurt you again. I doubt that I would as well.

Right now it's hard to talk about because I just recently had a major trigger about him last night.

But You know you are a strong person. You would not put up with that kind of ***** again. Why would you? You now know the warning signs. I think you have a good outlook on this now, and seem to be postive about not letting it happen again. And not too many people can say this , good for you.

That is all you can do, take baby steps and do not rush them. I'm happy to hear that you are talking about it and learning to trust again ....

Yes I am happy that I found someone that I can trust and love as well. There were at least 7 other people that did stuff to me after my ex at the age of 16. Pretty much from the 19960-2000, 2001 this has happened. And it's about bloody time something good came out of it.

Thank you my friend.

You take care of yourself , you may hit some bumps in the road, but you keep going forward no matter what. You may hit walls in the road , but you keep plowing them down. I think you are doing well for yourself, and I think you will become one of those people that people will look out and say If he can do it I can do it. Not just for gay men, but everyone out there male or female. I commend you.

Take care Kris.

<font color=red>~Sundance~</font color=red>

<font color=blue>"Never react emotionally to criticism. Analyze yourself to determine whether it is justified. If it is, correct yourself. Otherwise, go on about your business."</font color=blue>

<font color=black>Norman Vincent Peale</font color=black>