CE, this Madame t, has a lot of explaining to do. This is what annoys me about therapist, not all just some. My t1 always said too, I feel like you need answers and you want me to give them to you. I did but she could t because she did not have adequate training and therefore messed me up so much I left her feeling worse than when I started.
Maybe you will find Madame t does not have enough traing in the abandonment area?

I went back and read my ts areas expertise recently online and it said PTSD, I was having a frigging breakdown, a nervous breakdown and I said to her I think I am having a breakdown and she said go to your doctor.
My hands were shaking so much because I was in shock over my partners affair
... Sorry for rant but ts don't know everything!