There goes that black and white thinking again, hon. Can you see that there's maybe a happy medium between waiting three weeks and camping out on your T's doorstep?

Isn't it worth making the most of that attachment while you have it? It's going to end one day - unless your T is immortal! - but so will all human relationships, and in the mean time you're missing out. I think your T doesn't so much want you to become attached, as want you to rely on her and get your needs met.

Which is scary, and something to take a little bit at a time.