Hamster, I am interested in what kind of mind altering things you are speaking of. The T has suggested alcohol. But after several 9 lb kids the ole bladder is not what it once was. W/in 20 min of consuming fluids guess who has to potty. We have decided that yummy wine coolers and such contain to much fluid maybe. I told H to stop by the ABC store and pick up my favorite beverage. Then I can consume low volume high potency. That is the next step.

H is not so sure about doing his intoxicated wife, or having his wife have to drink prior to having sex w/ him. That idea holds little appeal. But of course being the man that he is, the outcome and positive affect of such things might just be worth the mind altering attempts.

I would love to hear of some other options. Thanks for responding.