As Janet Jackson would say, "CONTROL!!" Yes, that is the most recent CD I purchased. i totally related to your posts in this thread about feeling like you have to buy your friends. My parents used money as a weapon. Ts usually get paid enough to give themselves leeway to deal with issue. I.e., yes she CAN say no! She says yes or no depending on if she wants to, which is out of our control. I think it's scarier to think she might say yes. No, we already know how to handle.