I have to honour other people's right not to like me, and to hold opinions of me with which I might disagree"

This has been a long time issue with me, I am deeply hurt when anyone I like, trust, or respect doesn't feel those things for me. And I have been known to react negatively too, so making the situation worse. My usual reaction especially IRL is to withdraw but other reactions I have had have also been negative. I am hoping that having quoted this (thanks C) which is how I was feeling but hadn't formulated into consise thought..... will help with this issue

This is my issue and is in no way an attack or comment on anyone other than me.