Facebook. myspace, twitter....wreak havoc on relationships because of these exact reasons. So many actions can be misinterpreted...even when we're communicating directly with a SO through text messages things get distorted bc you're taking expression and gesture out of the equation but now you have the added stress of trying to figure out someones ACTIONS over the INTERNET. You might try taking these things out of your relationship altogether and see how it goes...I deleted my facebook bc I would spend hours trying to figure out if my bf was "up to something" on there, and since I deleted it I feel 100 times better!!!