Am I the only girl who likes "weak" guys? I put weak in quotation marks as it's relative and probably not the best term, but it's the term that's used in this thread so I'm going to roll with it.

Anyway, (for me), the benefits of a "weak" guy:
I'm physically weakened because of some unknown medical problem and I don't feel comfortable alone with someone that is physically stronger than me. So, I'd never date a guy (or even be alone in the same room with him) unless I knew I could easily defend myself if necessary. Also, the less aggressive the guy (which is probably considered to be part of "weak" in today's society), the safer I feel. And I like taking on the "knight in shining armor" role and being the protector. I actually feel like I have the opposite problem from a girl's perspective...I seem too tough.

And now that I think about it, I'd feel much more comfortable being around a guy with a lower libido because then I wouldn't feel pressured into doing something I don't want to do nor am ready for. Nor would I feel guilty for not meeting the guy's "needs". And no, I don't have a low libido—it's probably around average.

Why are there not more guys like you?! Girls like me who aren't so picky about the gender of their partner, are just going to have to date girls as there seems to be fewer and fewer acceptable male options. Masculinity is such a requirement that it's forced even on guys that it doesn't fit...guys with more effeminate qualities (such as being sensitive) can be so much more attractive!