1st: I'm not going to be a hypocrite and preach to everyone and pretend life is peachy. It's not...
I'm as confused, vulnerable and emotionally messed up as the next person, but if there is 1 no -negotiable in my life it is this: LEARN FROM YOUR EXPERIENCES AND TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF BEFORE YOU TRY INVOLVE OTHERS IN YOUR LIFE.
You can spend days, weeks, months or years searching for that someone to fill the void, that dark crevice in your soul/heart/spirit and 'find' them time and again, only to BE let down because of your own insecurity and lack of judgement. We are fed the images and ideals through pop culture and even accounts of history, this idea that who and what you surround yourself with is what defines you. You can't be whole, perfect or happy without a mate/partner/spouse and then it is prescribed to us what the aforementioned mate/partner/spouse should look like, act like and aspire to. Well I say bullsh1t!!! ''A rockin' bod, washboard abs and pumped guns'' make you no more than a stereotype and if that is what defines a suitable/desirable mate then I would venture to say that we are all better off alone, reproducing by ourselves like frogs...
You don't need the perfect 10 at your side to make you whole, to complete you, so to speak. Look out for yourself and learn to love who you are as a person individually. If you don't like what you see in the mirror; change it... Take some time for introspection and improve not only yourself, but your PERCEPTION of yourself!

A bit of a rant, I know... Just take a moment to think about it and decide for yourself. I personally can't remember ever being happier than I was when I was alone and happy with who I am... I love me and you would too if you were me

Just saying...

Love and Lightsabres

-Jay