My son take banjo lessons, anything for positive male role modeling. My son loves his banjo and his instructor is really great, full of encouragement and kind words. Both of those are things my son has not gotten from his dad. It has made a huge difference. Even when he doesn't practice and his heart is not in banjo, that 30 min a week is essential. My son has also taken up with some of the males teachers that teach in his class at church. Again they listen and they care. They have teens of there own, so they get how teens are. That is absolutely free to. Keep a close eye on the computer. I'm sure I'm not telling you anything new, but the out burst of anger is something I ran across w/ my son when he had issues w/ pornography. He was watching it even though we had safety devices set up to avoid that. You tube has everything. That got a reaction from my son that I have never seen before, anger like no other when his devices were taken away until this was addressed in T. I hope your meeting w/ the t proves helpful.