I am in a difficult and stressful situation at work. I hooked up with someone i work with about 2 weeks ago. I told him not to flirt with me at work anymore and that I just want to be friends. But he keeps flirting with me anyway, and saying things that are like, sexual harassment-ish things. The worst part is, I flirted back. Even though thats not what I want. Reading this, I feel like a jerk. But I was clear with him. Multiple times. Why do I flirt back? I think it's because I'm scared of him ignoring me. Wow, I feel like I have issues, seeing that from an outsiders point of view. I also feel weak, because I LIKE what he says to me. But I don't want this to continue. I just want to be left alone. Advice would be much appreciated. This is my job. I don't know what to do. Btw, I talked to my boss and she's not going to do anything because she thinks I feel ambivalent about it.