I have days where I feel, don't ask, unless you really care to know the answer (to the How are You?!)

Before my mom, passed, I was usually cynical deep down, without knowing why. When she died....where were all these 'friends' of hers, checking in on her only daughter? Where are the real people that really give a rats behind?

Oh, I am polite. But, I don't always play the 'niceties' game, either. How are you? Fine/Good, Thank You. Without the reply back. Depends on my mood. I actually have found myself having to make sure I ask, others, when I truly care.