Heya..

Sorry that things feel tough right now. But they will get better! And it's easy (and common) to put our rose-tinted glasses on when we split up from someone, esp if we feel lonely or a little low in confidence. (not saying you are feeling either of those things).

But, you split up for a reason, and try to remember that you had your reasons. If you were to get back together, things may not change and all the old problems would still be there. You were very young when you met, and I guess all you know at the mo. There is a whole world of people out there, so please remember you don't have to settle for second best.

Mr P, how do you feel about him really? Is it a rebound thing do you think? My advice is to take some time out of dating either of them for a while, give yourself some TLC and some friends/fun time? At least when the dust settles you'll probably be clearer to what you want.

Hugs.