My husband drank Saturday night after being sober for 11 months. I'm mad, scared, and disappointed. He wants me to not tell anyone about it. He did tell his sponsor and if I really wanted to or felt the need I would tell a couple of close friends. For now I haven't said anything, but it irks me when he tries to keep me quiet.

We have been married for thirty years and he did meth until 2002. There were a few good years and then alcohol became a problem.

Any thoughts on whether to continue to keep this to myself? My sister called me this morning and I hadn't said a few words and she said, "what's wrong?". I said "nothing." She knows better, but she just left it.