I'm saying it because I know the perfect self righteous stance. My mother was always, is this guy special?? No - I finally realized there are no special people. Nothing is going to be perfect. Your t can help you even if she has a different moral compass, which you can't really judge from the info you have. But it doesn't affect her knowledge of psychology. it's not like she's a serial killer.

I didn't mean to sound harsh. I think your t isn't feeling like a respected partner here. Where that's coming from, is it countertransference, idk. You sound like you want answers NOW. I'm just wondering what that is about. I don't think it's obvious.

ETA: but thank you for letting me know that didn't sound nice. The "sound effects" or tone aren't usually there for me until a couple of days later, and then I'm like wtf who is that ***** - oh its me oopsie.