How old are you? I find as I get older I prefer to stay home more and more and be with my cat and husband. I am very comfortable in my house. I can be who I am and not have to worry about other people bothering me. I also work all day. I stop and do any errands or shopping after work. Then I come home and cook, clean up and do any minor chores around the house. I am tired when I get done. I don't have the energy to go out and have a good time. We often go somewhere on weekends but I like being with my husband so much I don't need anyone else. Maybe I am getting crotchety but I am very happy. I dont' see any problem. I even hate talking on the phone anymore.