There is no "the" point. There are various points. Taking a too-narrow viewpoint often limits both understanding and solutions.

You are complaining about certain things, yes. But joy and happiness when shared are extremely attractive things. Do you have any on your own? Did you share any with these people?

Not YOUR point, but A relevant point.

What type of response are you hoping for here? I am curious. People to answer your question this way, "What is wrong with you is . . ."? Or something else. I am not sure. I have been where you are and have told you how I got out of it. No doubt there are many routes out that work for different people and situations.