Agreed. Relevant, because the other person would readily sense you enjoyment or lack thereof, and if you said little afterwards, well, it would be nice, if true, to hear after a first date that the other person enjoyed themselves, if they did; or even that it didn't work out for them (though that is hard, and a lot to ask...most just stay quiet). To receive, giving is important (socially). I took a peek at your profile and don't know how old you are or what your history is......have social relationships, even with men in this case, always been difficult, or is this actually related to women? You may need to practice certain skills, or you may need to work on your own self-image or that of women, in general, for you.