*sarcastic wit here*, you aren't having a baby with my exh, are you?! ((no, no seriously, you couldn't possibly be, but wow...))
Some of the things you mentioned your bf says, I can HEAR the tone of voice being used!!!
I have had that used with me! And I loathe it, my ex, uses that tone, those remarks. AS IF, he's the greatest thing, since sliced bread!
The lack of involvement with the pregnancy, lack of desire just to share the pregnancy, etc. Never mind, the flying accusations during pregnancy #2 and #3...oh boy!!
Sure you are at a heightened level of sensitivity, after all, you are carry a child, but still..sometimes it's these life changing moments that bring about the realization that the men we bare children for are no good for us!!