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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
Oh, I picked up on that for a very good reason - I had the same kind of (now ex) 2nd H. There are just too many similarities and I do not, unfortunately, have enough time to write in-depth now, but no, no, no, you are NOT crazy!
It has been recommended to me that I watch that old classic movie "Gaslight" in which the H convinces the W that she is crazy and she starts seeing evidence of it. I have not watched it but plan to. I think you should, too.
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I own that movie, and have watched it! Their behavior is crazy making behavior, in essence.
One thing I have learned, is that what ever is usually said, at least in my case, has been a projected fear of baggage, unresolved from his past.
For instance, the accusations, even now, are fear that I'll behave like his own mother did.
Little stuff like that, with a lot of therapy, self-help, etc, will help one gain clarity through the stuff tossed your way.
