You clearly aren't listening and just repeating the rules and norms here, which I disagree with and have already stated that.

You can't do things in private if it's not safe and also if the person blocks you so what you say makes no sense and it's taking in anything I'm saying.

Doing things in public keeps people honest and then people are better protected because others can also support them and see what is happening.

That's what happens in real life and especially in groups. The private means just doesn't work. I'm tired of repeating this basic point.