I am also one who cannot be content in the here and now, and attribute this forecasting as the greatest cause of my anxiety. While thankfully it doesn't pertain to my relationship, my marriage, it does effect every other area of my life--career, outlook, etc. It always seems like I'm looking a year or more down the road. I've always cherished my fitness and recreation, but that has been impacted by a disk herniation for the last year and feel that I may "never" be better. I also tend to be overwhelmed by the notion of finding my "perfect" or life-long career and cannot be happy if things aren't quite right. Ryan