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Originally Posted by tinyrabbit
My T hugged me today for the second time ever, at my request, and something weird and unexpected happened. I realised I'd curled my left hand into a fist and put it between us.
Now that I did not expect. I've spent all week thinking that I really need a hug, and then I find myself making a fist at him!
So I got out of the hug to discuss the fist and then I was really upset, and my T said: "Are you thinking: I want my hug back?" Which I was! But I was also thinking, what on earth is my unconscious playing at?
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I sometimes do this with my dad not because I'm angry but because this is embarrassing but I'm just not comfortable with my boobs touching him at all and it creates enough space so that they hang down instead of pointing out. So it could just be a sort of personal space divide you know you want to be close but not that close.