Well, I think there is a diffrence for when you are dating to when you are married.
When you are dating, you bring into the relantionship your experience and the only way you get those is going out whith people, I don't think it should be a big deal, but If you are engaged and really seriuos about marriage (with already a date) I think the pictures and his POV should be taken a little bit more. And I say that becuase when you get married, you keep those memories with you, but part of your compromise to the marriage is that you are not longer thinking about anybody else. For me, and I'm not a controling person, could be really hurtful if my husband to be had anylinks to somebody else.
Also, I think you guys need to tlak it over and find your own rules to the game, every couple is different and you need to feel confortable enough to talk about this.
Spaz, also, for what I read about him, can I ask, How old is he? To me he seems kinda inmature to me.
Anyway, PM me if you need anything ~hug~