(only been to see a psychologist twice now...)
Whenever anyone asks me how I'm feeling, I tend to give a circumstantial response. "I slept well last night so I'm great!" "Didn't sleep so I'm pretty grumpy" "I just had a blast doing X with my class!" or I respond about health/sleep. "My stomach's been sore," "Not so good - I still haven't slept"
I very rarely answer with how I actually feel. But then, usually how I actually feel are feelings like lonely, or scattered, or annoyed at being asked (again, circumstantial! I couldn't even list off my common emotions!!! I quit!)
Yeah. I failed at that one!
If I don't think that giving a circumstantial answer is going to work, or if they re-ask, I get very uncomfortable and don't know how to respond.
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"The time has come, the Walrus said, to talk of many things. Of shoes, of ships, of sealing wax, of cabbages, of kings! Of why the sea is boiling hot, of whether pigs have wings..."
"I have a problem with low self-esteem. Which is really ridiculous when you consider how amazing I am.
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