A long time ago when I was a student I had some counselling. I could never cry with my counsellor then. The odd this is I really wanted to. It was a time in my life when I hardly cried at all. Now I am one huge blubbering mess! I almost always end up crying in T. She is always kind and supplies tissues. For me it seems a bit all or nothing. I am glad I feel safe enough to cry in T, but sometimes at other times I just wish I could get a bit of control back! To those who can't cry in T and want to, I would just say, remember you are in a safe place and you won't be judged. Also you are there to do whatever is good for you, and if it includes tears, so be it.