It makes me angry that he has skated through life while I have struggled; it makes me angry that it took me nearly 2 decades to even begin to get my life back on track while he has sailed through with ease, not caring and not feeling anything about any of this and not acknowledging his part in the derailment of my life. (We still talk now and then, btw, so I know this.)

Yes, there are a variety of things to sort out.

CB