Crying is a tricky thing for me because I have parents who just do not care if I'm upset but get annoyed, or tell me not feel like that, or ignore me, or talk over me. Being ignored when I cry just makes me feel rejected.

And the thing with Ts is they sit with your feelings, so they won't necessarily DO anything but will just sit there and be there and listen - but for some of us that makes it worse. Mine knows that if I'm really crying he needs to pass the tissues, that's really important for me.

I do actually cry quite a lot in therapy, but I always think my T must think badly of me for it...