It's interesting to hear you all say that you can feel it happening.... for me...I'm just gone... and I loss time usually less than 15 minutes but it is scary and freaky to me when it happens outside of T in RL. I don't seem to have any control over it at all.

my xT used to notice and he would call my name and then ask where I went but I never have had any memory of what I was thinking or even what was the last thing I remember us talking about.

with my current T we are doing mostly CBT stuff about current stuff so it completely avoids the whole dissociating thing...either that or she doesn't notice it...