Totally agree with all three of the last comments. Mi am not afraid as long as I'm around the right people. And yeah, crying over every little thing is not good, even for women in my opinion. And yeah, I believe that you are more of a man if you show your emotions than if you bottle them up like a robot and causes problems later in life. My dad is like that, he thinks crying even at funerals is bad, and he has lots of anger issues. I think part of it is because he bottles his emotions up and now time is coming back to get him.