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Originally Posted by wotchermuggle
My T is encouraging me to depend more on him by contacting before making decisions that I'm unsure of, to get a second opinion or view of the situation.
Part of me thinks this is crazy, part of me is scared, part of me wants to run.
How do you guys deal with your therapist wanting you to depend MORE (vs. less which is often talked about here) ?
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That isn't part of my therapy experience. Infact T sits and gently smiles when I try to get her to make decisions for me. It would feel infantizing. Plus we are imperfect beings. We learn from our mistakes/imperfections. And besides, sometimes there are no right or wrong choices.