"But I’d rather work on Madame T than on my mother, because that’s a relationship that might be saved. My mother is dead, so there is no way to find out what she thought and felt....."


We don't work on relationships to discover what 'they' might have thought or done. We work on them to resolve the internal realtionship we had with them. Infact working on the relationship you had with your des eased mother will resolve all other difficulties with people.