It does make it more difficult do communicate without the eye contact & & observing body language to be more in touch with the other person.
I find that I do that more in group situations...like in my Bible study groups or in the DBT group I was in. One on one comunication is much easier to handle....lol....sometimes we go back & forth...you say what you were going to say...no you...lol......but in groups, that's when I struggle the most with trying to get my thought out there & heard. Had one lady in my DBT group that I always seemed to be doing that to.....& I caught myself doing that & finally was able to catch myself before actually saying anything when I realized this was happening.
Most times I always try to wait for a lull in the conversation in groups before saying something....but then sometimes I end up going back to the previous subject if I didn't get a chance to say what I thought was important.....the art of conversation isn't easy that's for sure.
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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