I had asked this question so many times, at one point I begged my ex-t to make me hate her so I wouldn't be so attached.

setting personal boundries is a good thing to help, doing something to where you don't feel like you need when she is gone is what I felt like I needed.. most therapist will not be there forever. figuring all of this out before she is gone is what I wish I would of did, it would of been easier to de-tach from her when I needed to .