I agree, sometimes when I watch it I realize, damn, that's a horrible way to treat a girl, why would she want to be subjected to that, yet it still gets me off. As a girl, I don't think, "oh yes, I wish he'd do that to me." Because my fetish is femdom and I like to envision the guy being in the girl's position and I usually masturbate with the femdom role reversal after watching certain porn.

I wonder if maybe my fetish is due to watching porn, because you start off with basic porn and then eventually you start looking up weird porn and then it gets weirder and weirder. But I still don't have a problem with it, it just helps me explore my sexuality.