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Old Jun 20, 2013, 10:12 AM
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Originally Posted by rainbow8 View Post
I'm glad your T apologized! If you care to share, I'm wondering how the session went. Did she apologize right away?
No, she didnt apologize straight away.
Basically she thanked me for coming back. She said that she knew she had made a mistake, and that she had replied to my request to cancel the session, out of anger.
I had been right, she had heard my message (in which i said i wanted to cancel the session) and presumed i was running away and got angry.
She said that she had 'taken on' my anger.
I had had a really sh*tty week previous to that, as my family were visiting and i find them-especially my mum- incredibly triggering. And i always go downhill in regards to depression, anger, feelings of worthlessness when they decide to visit.
At first, i was really defensive, and thought she was blaming me for the whole thing but as we talked through it, i actually realised she was right.
She apologised, and so did i, and we agreed that it was just an error in communication and a testament to our strong bond that we are able to have todays appointment to work through it.

Although the downside is that i have promised to work on my anger...i HATE anger, and never normally admit to being angry EVER!
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