Candybear,

I apologize for not reading the article first. But I still feel the same way, that you have a right to your feelings. Nobody has the right to tell you how to feel or how not to feel. Nobody has the right to judge you and certainly nobody should tell you that you are not a mother. I don't know why people are so insensitive and mean. They need help is all I can say. Maybe they haven't had to go through anything painful. All I can say is try not to let others opinions and thoughts get you down. I will keep you in my prayers.